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princess-angeldoll:

nicholael:

p0kemina:

severmylimbs:

p0kemina:

satanic-b00ty:

rosariummm:

You can’t find it because I reported you and had tumblr remove it lol wow guys check out this disrespectful jerk! Please report him PLEASE!!!

I get so angry when people are like “if you don’t want it reblogged then don’t post it” uhm no, its the fact that you are dehumanizing ME, a person with feelings, and sexualizing me at the same time. All I’m seeing from him in this is that he does not give two fucks about womens feelings and how they feel when someone dehumanizes them. If she wanted her picture on your nasty ass blog then she would have submitted it herself. Disgusting piece of shit.

"I’m a perv and sexualising you against your will because you do not own your own body and decide whether or not I can collect images of you in an image bank that I use to stimulate me sexually. I am a selfish pig and I don’t understand personal boundaries. Something something freedom of speech lets me invade your privacy."

Am I the only one who thinks this chick Is overreacting ?

You shouldn’t be because
The girl in question has in her blog description very clearly that she does not want any blogs that contain pornographic content as their main content (i.e. porn / fetish blogs) to follow her or reblog her pictures. This blog, as many other porn and fetish blogs do, explicitly ignored this request and did it anyway, demonstrating, as many other porn and fetish blogs do, a lack of care for other people’s personal comfort and boundaries
In case he did not reblog it directly from her, she’s also kindly asked he removed her photograph. Look at the sense of entitlement this man has over this girl’s image. You may not think it’s that big of a deal but it is extremely telling of society’s attitude towards women and their bodies and especially their right to not want to be viewed in a sexual context
It is really REALLY wrong for someone to sexualise someone else against their will. Being featured on a blog with heavy, pornographic content can not only be detrimental to someone’s own mental health, but it can even impact their social relationships and future job prospects, if found by others in the wrong context. Not everyone knows how tumblr works and will understand that there are porn blogs who basically don’t give a shit about other people’s boundaries and provided sexual contexts before collecting images of them
It should be that someone needs to say yes to be consenting to be viewed sexually, contrary to the popular “it’s not bad unless they say no.” In any case, the girl DID say no and was blatantly refused by this man, who has access to a multitude of other (hopefully consensual) sexual images but is so adamant about his right to sexualise this girl he thinks it is some kind of moral / free speech issue. If this isn’t downright disregard for consent, people’s boundaries and just plain fucking compassion for other people’s wishes I don’t know what is
TL;DR It’s not what you’re technically ‘allowed’ to get away with according to a website’s terms of service or the ‘rules’ of the internet, it’s about respecting people’s boundaries and especially respecting people’s wishes about their own sexual context. Nobody has any right to simply place someone in a sexual context with out their consent. And while some argue this is inevitable in people’s ‘heads’ or ‘imaginations’, the least they can do is not do it publicly. How much of a fucking baby do you have to be, to be genuinely upset / insulted about someone asking you to not display their image in your precious aggregation of sexually stimulating photographs?

"since I consider myself a gentleman I’ll be SO NICE that I’ll CONSIDER respecting you as a fellow human being! I’m really going out of my way here to be gallant everyone, real gent coming through :^)" this is so petty and whiny and entitled I wish I could unread it

*tableflip*

princess-angeldoll:

nicholael:

p0kemina:

severmylimbs:

p0kemina:

satanic-b00ty:

rosariummm:

You can’t find it because I reported you and had tumblr remove it lol wow guys check out this disrespectful jerk! Please report him PLEASE!!!

I get so angry when people are like “if you don’t want it reblogged then don’t post it” uhm no, its the fact that you are dehumanizing ME, a person with feelings, and sexualizing me at the same time. All I’m seeing from him in this is that he does not give two fucks about womens feelings and how they feel when someone dehumanizes them. If she wanted her picture on your nasty ass blog then she would have submitted it herself. Disgusting piece of shit.

"I’m a perv and sexualising you against your will because you do not own your own body and decide whether or not I can collect images of you in an image bank that I use to stimulate me sexually. I am a selfish pig and I don’t understand personal boundaries. Something something freedom of speech lets me invade your privacy."

Am I the only one who thinks this chick Is overreacting ?

You shouldn’t be because

  1. The girl in question has in her blog description very clearly that she does not want any blogs that contain pornographic content as their main content (i.e. porn / fetish blogs) to follow her or reblog her pictures. This blog, as many other porn and fetish blogs do, explicitly ignored this request and did it anyway, demonstrating, as many other porn and fetish blogs do, a lack of care for other people’s personal comfort and boundaries
  2. In case he did not reblog it directly from her, she’s also kindly asked he removed her photograph. Look at the sense of entitlement this man has over this girl’s image. You may not think it’s that big of a deal but it is extremely telling of society’s attitude towards women and their bodies and especially their right to not want to be viewed in a sexual context
  3. It is really REALLY wrong for someone to sexualise someone else against their will. Being featured on a blog with heavy, pornographic content can not only be detrimental to someone’s own mental health, but it can even impact their social relationships and future job prospects, if found by others in the wrong context. Not everyone knows how tumblr works and will understand that there are porn blogs who basically don’t give a shit about other people’s boundaries and provided sexual contexts before collecting images of them
  4. It should be that someone needs to say yes to be consenting to be viewed sexually, contrary to the popular “it’s not bad unless they say no.” In any case, the girl DID say no and was blatantly refused by this man, who has access to a multitude of other (hopefully consensual) sexual images but is so adamant about his right to sexualise this girl he thinks it is some kind of moral / free speech issue. If this isn’t downright disregard for consent, people’s boundaries and just plain fucking compassion for other people’s wishes I don’t know what is

TL;DR It’s not what you’re technically ‘allowed’ to get away with according to a website’s terms of service or the ‘rules’ of the internet, it’s about respecting people’s boundaries and especially respecting people’s wishes about their own sexual context. Nobody has any right to simply place someone in a sexual context with out their consent. And while some argue this is inevitable in people’s ‘heads’ or ‘imaginations’, the least they can do is not do it publicly. How much of a fucking baby do you have to be, to be genuinely upset / insulted about someone asking you to not display their image in your precious aggregation of sexually stimulating photographs?

"since I consider myself a gentleman I’ll be SO NICE that I’ll CONSIDER respecting you as a fellow human being! I’m really going out of my way here to be gallant everyone, real gent coming through :^)" this is so petty and whiny and entitled I wish I could unread it

*tableflip*



the-dark-mori-lolita:

antlersinthefog:

little treasures

Follow me into the woods. A dark mori and lolita fashion blog.



thatsthat24:

meera-reed:

pocketmoony:

This made me laugh so hard!

thatsthat24 is one of the best Viners out there. Period.

Aww you’re too sweet!

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frillypinkdreams:

gimme gimme gimme all the tartan please ; v;

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truth2teatold:

SurfaceSpell Violin Ghost Bag


the-dark-mori-lolita:

Follow me into the woods. A dark mori and lolita fashion blog.

the-dark-mori-lolita:

Follow me into the woods. A dark mori and lolita fashion blog.

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scelestica:

Decorating my own little batcave! <3

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